Isaac
was born in Kirdford, Sussex in 1843, the son of carpenter William Steer and his
wife Lucy. Described as a short active man he became a bricklayer by trade and a keen member of the Society of Dependants, a religious group. He had three brothers.
In
1876 Isaac married Eliza Durrant (formerly Walder) in Reigate. He was her second
husband and she came with a 10 year old daughter Mary. Mary went on to marry a
Mr Kirk and they had a daughter Gwenfra who lived in Denmark Road, South Norwood. Interestingly Isaac's brother William apparently married Caroline Walder, the sister of Isaac's wife.
Isaac and Eliza lived in Meadvale, Reigate, where they had three more children.
Being an
active member of the Society of Dependants, Isaac would walk to South Norwood
chapel on a Sunday to preach, using a map drawn by John Sirgood, the charismatic
leader of this religious sect.
After the 1880s, the family relocated to several addresses in the Croydon area: 1891 80 Denmark Road, South Norwood and 1901 42 Woodside Avenue Croydon. Eventually the family moved to 2 Cobden Road, South Norwood where Isaac secured
a position with Randall Slades of Denmark Road. The Steer grandchildren at this time recall him as a kindly man who carried a bible. Isaac died in 1921 at the age of 78 years of cancer of the bladder.
In
1983 Bruce attended a service of the Society of Dependants at their Loxwood
Chapel. About 12 elderly people sung unaccompanied hymns, said prayers and
voiced testimonies. After the service and at a subsequent meeting, a Mr G
Goodwin, being 76 years old, recalled Isaac Steer in South Norwood. He was a
lively little man who always preached with his right hand in the air, described
as a kindly, good man. Mr Goodwin also knew Isaac's grandaughter Gwenfra and
about the connection with Randall Slades. Apparently the children all went to
Portland Road School together. Isaac Steer's grandchild Fred Steer subsequently
recalled Mr Goodwin, who once lived in the Croydon area.
So what became of their children?
Edith Lucy, born 1878 in Reigate, by 1891 she was still at home with her parents working as a dressmakers assistant. She then married William Henry Page, the son of Jim Page of Loxwood, a member of the Dependants religious sect. They had three children, Henry 1902-1926, Violet who moved to York and Bertie who became a Lieutenant Colonel and lived in Brighton and Shoreham.
Elizabeth Ellen, born 1880, went on to marry
Edward Hoskin, supposedly a Welsh Miner but born in Redhill. They lived in Slough and had three children, Ted, Henry and one other.
William Isaac, born 1881, married into the Grange family in 1906. His detailed profile can be seen by clicking below.
The
Society of Dependants - This small religious sect owed its origin to John
Sirgood, who came to Loxwood from Clapham in London in 1850. It was a
working class organisation that did much to improve the lot of those
suffering harsh employment conditions, particularly women. They were
nicknamed Cokelers because of the supposed preference for cocoa rather than
alcohol. By the time of Sirgood's death in 1885, the Dependants were
estimated to number c. 2000. In their heyday they had meetings in Loxwood,
Northchapel, Warnham, Shamley Green (Surrey), Plaistow, Wisborough Green,
Chichester, Hove, Portslade and South Norwood. They founded village stores,
which employed many of the members, particularly the women. These stores
were tremendously successful. By 1990 only a few elderly adherents remained. Click the picture left for more details.
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